When the Twin Flame journey is a traumatic response! (part 1)

Today we are going to talk about a key situation that is the starting point of your entire TF journey. This situation is not challenged in TF videos, as it is upheld and glorified as the “nine-point proof” that you are indeed in a “divine” relationship when it is actually a traumatic response…

I am, of course, talking about that feeling of certainty you experienced when you met that person.

So, we are going to discuss this topic, and brace yourself because it might sting your eyes. I also suggest you prepare some anti-inflammatory drops 🥹.

Taking care of yourself is important! 🤣🤞🏻

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The feeling of certainty: a traumatic response.

If we revisit the general storyline of the “Twin Flame” narrative, one day you meet someone and in their presence, you then feel an enormous sense of certainty. (A click/special connection/finally feeling at home, completeness, etc.)

It’s striking, clear, vivid, and electrifying, but positive.

When you experience this feeling, you don’t know why or how, but you know that you know the other person. (Or you believe that you already know them, and that’s partly true. (You’ll see why in the rest of the article).

This sense of certainty plus this intrigue (not knowing why or how) will make you want to know more.

And thus begins the “Twin Flame” journey.

But here lies the heart of the problem, in reality:

The Chaser becomes the victim of their own illusion.

If I were to give you the conclusion of the article now, here’s what actually happens:

Feeling of Certainty + Idealization + Projection = Illusion.

The Chaser’s feeling of certainty leads them to idealize the Runner, projecting their expectations onto them, which plunges the Chaser into their own illusion (created and generated by past traumas).

The Chaser then lives in their own illusion
(On which the Runner happily surfs, pretending to be the innocent child who doesn’t know or remember anything 🤣).

As I mentioned in the introduction, this feeling of certainty is the number one criterion that everyone takes as irrefutable proof that the other person is our other half, that we are on a divine journey, or that it’s the right relationship, etc… You get the idea.

Why?

Simply because when you experience this feeling of certainty:

It’s intense, clear, and striking,
It’s rare,
It’s particular and specific,
It only happens in the presence of another person (thus, a relationship…).
It’s intriguing (you’re sure you know the other person even though your memory tells you otherwise).

When you experience this feeling of certainty, you’ll then, in a split second, make an association:

Intensely positive event + specific + particular + rarity = there must be something to experience.

You’ll then take this as a green light when it’s actually a response from your unconscious.

Above, I dissected the matter for you, but in the moment, all you see is:

Feeling of certainty = it’s him/her.

If you experienced this feeling of certainty once a week with a different person over two months, you’d be so accustomed to it that you wouldn’t pay much attention to it. (This is to show you how important the rarity of this feeling is here).

What is rare is valuable… You get the idea?

It’s just intellectual reasoning that flashes through your mind in an instant.

That’s when this feeling of certainty and this association become the starting point for all of the Chaser’s problems.

After all, isn’t it often said on this journey that we don’t understand because normally, we wouldn’t have turned back to look at this person if we had crossed paths on the street?

All of this to show that there is indeed “something special” going on.

So, it’s this feeling of certainty that changes everything. But it changes everything because we give it tremendous credit because of the criteria mentioned above. And this is a choice that the Chaser makes, in the face of this feeling of certainty!

So…

With this feeling of certainty >> you want to know more about this person.
Without this feeling of certainty >> you wouldn’t turn back on the street.

So, what does that mean?

Your criterion, your gauge for wanting something with this person is this feeling that is “so particular”. In other words, a feeling self-produced by yourself, or more precisely, by your unconscious.

You’ll take this as intuition, your soul, but in fact, it’s just your unconscious, signaling to you through this type of feeling that it has finally found what it was looking for. But what is it looking for exactly…? You’ll find out below.

Since you identify with your thought and emotion as “you”, you’ll then follow the path proposed to you by this feeling.

This positive feeling tells me that the other person is my other half, so I’m going for it!

Since it’s positive, pleasant, intense, and promises you what you’re looking for, you certainly won’t question it. For you, it’s certain that it’s the right path. (Will you remind me of the extremely chaotic turn your journey has already taken…? 🤓)

Unknowingly, you’ve just misinterpreted a communication from your ego mind about the situation.

Here’s what actually happens, but no one tells you in the Twin Flame journey…

This is why it’s a traumatic response.

It’s just your unconscious recognizing another unconscious as “the best candidate” that will allow us to replay a number of scenarios, situations, programs, and patterns from the past.

One of your unconscious directives is to match the programming contained within it with 3D reality.

In other words, you’ll tend to attract by default circumstances, situations, events, and people that match with the predominant lines of code in your unconscious that come from your experiences.

Hence the repetitive patterns known in psychology or the “false twin flames” that are just like the real ones but are fake” 🤣.

(Another Twin Flame BS, which, instead of calling a spade a spade, changes terms to make it seem like something different…) 🫨

As it’s said in the law of attraction, you don’t attract what you want, but what you are. This phrase is there to highlight the fact that there’s the overall vibrational state of what you are: “conscious + unconscious” and that’s what you attract.

For example, if you want to be rich, but your unconscious contains a very strong belief >> “being rich = being a jerk”.

You’ll struggle hard to make money 😀.

Because as Émile Coué said, between the conscious and the unconscious, it’s always the unconscious that wins.

Look at the efforts a smoker has to make to quit smoking by sheer willpower. If they want it to happen smoothly: they’ll see a hypnotherapist who will directly work on the subconscious.

In short, the unconscious seeks to reproduce in life what is contained in its hard drive and what is deemed important. If it’s in the hard drive, it’s already experienced, therefore known, therefore familiar.

When you meet the Runner…

When you meet your Runner, you encounter a person who carries in their hard drive the lines of code sought by your unconscious, which, for the latter, are known, already experienced, and therefore familiar.

That’s why when you meet the other, you have a sense of evidence, of “being at home,” or “finally at home,” because when you feel this, it’s just your unconscious communicating its reassurance by having completed its quest:

We finally have what we were looking for: to rediscover familiar patterns that we can replay.

That’s also why “time stops in the presence of the other” because the “turbine” of the ego mind, the searching head (anxiety, rumination, of the ego mind, calms down), also, you experience what you experience when you are complete alone: calm and peace.

Except that there, you only experience it in the presence of the other.

These turbines turn in the background and stop only in the presence of the other because the quest is over and we are where we should be (in familiar territory). That’s also why at each separation (even without conflicts between the two) >> tears.

That’s why you’ll want to be in the presence of your Runner advocating unconditional love because it allows you to regain this state (which is natural for you, by the way), that you can only have in the presence of the other…

If you proceed with emotional release, you stop these turbines yourself. With no background noise, you feel calm and inner peace.

And that’s why when you have stopped these turbines by yourself, your Runner is no longer of interest to you because they are no longer “that key” you so desperately need.

You will gradually move towards people who emotionally nourish you, with common values, respect, stability, fairness, and so on.

In short, healthy relationships… 😅

The problem lies in the contents of your hard drive.

Here’s an example to help you understand what I wrote earlier. If, because of your past experiences, something like this is written in your unconscious:

“When I have emotional needs, I turn to people who should fulfill them, but I am always ignored.”

So, when your unconscious encounters a candidate matching this line of code in your daily life, it will make you “flash” on this person or pique your curiosity about them.

If you engage in this interaction, you will find that you have expectations towards this person, but your needs will not be met, although they could be…

For the conscious mind: this relationship will not correspond to what you want.
For the unconscious mind: this relationship is exactly the match for the line of code.

Of course, here I’m only taking one line of code to give a simple example, but in the twin flame journey, there are dozens of lines of code like this at play on both sides.

This is what gives it power in terms of feelings and energetic phenomena. In fact, it’s just the power of traumas meeting and giving a “positive click.”

Positive click = two unconscious minds happily finding in each other what they were looking for…

The other is “truly your other” for the unconscious.

Therefore, for your unconscious, the other is indeed your other in the sense that: they are the right person matching a maximum of our “pillar” lines of code and thus fulfilling our quest.

We seek X, and the Runner possesses X = perfect match.

And people who possess as many lines of code sought by your unconscious are not encountered every day.

But in addition to that, it must also be reciprocal:

The Chaser’s unconscious seeks B and finds B in the Runner.
The Runner’s unconscious seeks A and finds A in the Chaser.

And that’s why this type of relationship is “quite rare,” because both subconscious minds must find in the other what they are seeking.

So when it matches in both directions, both feel a particular connection we call Twin Flame.

The more it matches in terms of lines of code, the more energetic bridges can be created, such as telepathy, premonitions, and other energetic phenomena.

That’s why “false twin flames,” who are “just like the real ones but are false,” are profiles where there is a match but to a lesser extent in terms of lines of code.

So, you will experience fewer or no energetic phenomena, but in terms of pure psychology, “It’s like a twin flame journey with the same steps.”

How do we know all of this is true?

Because when you dissect the psychoemotional aspects of the chasers, when you delve into their childhood, you realize that ALL of them have the same fundamental lines of code that are activated/replayed in this “Twin Flame” relationship.

When you reprogram the unconscious: nothing reacts anymore, you couldn’t care less about your Runner than about your neighbor’s underwear color. 🤣

Well, maybe not, because if it’s pretty… 😏🤫

Anyway, when you’ve reached completeness, you’ve filled your gaps (erasing lines of code that created these gaps). During this process, the energy exchanges & energetic phenomena gradually dry up and disappear.

These phenomena are there because the unconscious sends an INSANE power to obtain/retain what it considers its Holy Grail: the situation/person allowing it to replay the fundamental lines of code acquired in childhood.

In other words, the unconscious is doing everything to continue doing its job. No more, no less. Now you understand the power of your attraction to the other.

What I’ve just said here is based on experimentation in emotional release and results obtained systematically and reproducibly over almost 4 years of twin flame coaching.

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